Feeling SO sad

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  1. Dr CEM

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    Sadly our beautiful, faithful 13 year old chocolate girl was put to sleep at the vets this morning. As well as her ongoing breathing difficulties, she recently developed a tumour in her mouth that was inoperable at her age. Over the past two days it just got bigger and bigger and she was in obvious pain.

    I was with her all the time and she was I'm pleased to report that her passing was peaceful and dignified. She fell asleep with her head on my lap, with me telling her how much she was loved.

    I have spent most of today in tears and all the feelings of loss I experienced after losing our gorgeous chocolate boy Teddy in October came flooding back. Our 7 month old puppy Buddy seems confused and lost too, but has received lots of cuddles from all of us.
     
  2. Naya

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    I'm so sorry to hear this. I really don't know how you feel, but I am sure Buddy will help with your grief over the coming days. Big hug xx
     
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    oh my lord, i feel so sorry for you, my deepest sympathy to you and yours :'(
    i was in tears reading this, so very sorry for your loss xx sending big hugs to you
     
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    I am so so sorry for your loss, I don't really know what to say :'( :'(
     
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    It sounds like your girl was loved all her life, and knew she was loved right to the end. Not much more a dog could ask for. Hugs to you at this painful time.
     
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    Very sad to hear of her passing :(

    It is so hard losing a beloved pet - they can't speak words to us but they show us they understand and love us as much as we love them.

    Thoughts to you and yours during this difficult time.
     
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    I'm so very sorry. I know how much it hurts to lose a much loved dog. Hugs to you. x
     
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    Thank you for your messages. Being a member of this forum is wonderful, in times of both joy and sadness.

    Here is a link to another snap of Fudge with Buddy as a young pup.
     
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    Oh Caroline :(
    I am so sorry to hear this. So soon after Teddy.
    A lovely picture. I am glad you were able to help her peacefully at the end.
    {{{hugs}}}
    Lots of cuddles for Buddy xx
     
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    What a lovely, lovely, picture. A really beautiful girl. I bet you have lots of wonderful memories of her fantastic life, even if they are too painful to think about right now. In time, it will be better (I know everyone says that, but it's true).
     
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    Oh I'm so sorry for your loss. Beautiful photos. Such a sad time, but you will have wonderful memories. X
     
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    Oh I'm so sorry for your loss. Beautiful photos. Such a sad time, but you will have wonderful memories. X
     
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    I'm so sorry you had to say goodbye to your gorgeous girl today :'( It's so painful. Big hugs. I'll be thinking of you.
     
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    Nothing I can say will help. You love them so much, it just hurts. But she knew she was loved, and in the end that's all that really matters isn't it? Hugs from here too.
     
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    Hugs from here too. Lovely pictures of lovely dogs....so sorry to hear of your loss, it's so hard.
     
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    Oh Caroline,I'm so sorry,had a little cry reading your news and then a total weep reading everybody's comments .......I hope Buddy will bring you some comfort,love and smiles as you get used to life without your beautiful old girl......sending you my very best wishes xxxx
     
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    I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl, loved til the last moment and beyond xxx
     
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    So sorry it's such a horrible thing to go through and having to do it twice so soon must be terrible. Try and remember all the good times and fun you had and smile when you feel sad.
     
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    Sorry to hear of your loss, I too loss my 13yr old last June and it was a very difficult time.
    I must admit the hardest thing was coming home to an empty house with no wagging tail to greet us, hopefully Buddy will ease the heartache a little and you his. X
     

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