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  1. kateincornwall

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    I was appalled this afternoon , by one of those people who know everything , but don't . I had gone for a walk , Nell was wearing her medical shirt to protect her wound , I walked her for maximum five minutes on lead , she did her wee and poo so I then carried her back to Paul at the car so that I could give Sam a good run . Watching all this was a woman I see from time to time , one I try to avoid as she is outspoken to the point of rudeness . She asked why I had Nell " dressed up " and why she wasn't going for a walk . I explained about her spay yesterday , adding that I wasn't dressing her up , but that being so low to the ground , the medical shirt kept her wound dry and safe . She scoffed , and said I must be mad , that Nell looked perfectly well and able to have a good run and that I was being one of those " ridiculous over protective owners " . To be honest , I am tired and not in a fit state of mind to think of a suitably rude and frank reply , I just hope that neither of her dogs ever needs surgery and caring for afterwards , so damned cross x
     
  2. pippa@labforumHQ

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    How horrible for you Kate. There's no need for such unpleasantness. Hope it didn't upset you too much.
     
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    Oh @kateincornwall that is so,so horrid for you. What is wrong with people that they have to interfere in such a way. Clearly she hasn't enough to do in her own life.

    Have something nice to perk yourself up :)
     
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    Oh @kateincornwall that is truly awful. What nasty know it all woman. Nell and Sam are so lucute to have you living and caring for them so don'the let this stupid opinionated woman to upset you. I prescribe a large glass of red to help you de-stress ;) xx
     
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    Oh I'm so sorry you just met an idiot. If you watered her,her IQ might get a bit higher;)
     
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    Why do people think they have a right to comment on other people's dogs?! I just don't understand it - I've had more rude comments since I got Stanners than I've had in my entire life!

    Just ignore her, Kate. You're doing the best for little Nell and you can be 100% sure of that. Hope it didn't upset you too much x
     
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    Just ignore, she is an ignorant and rude woman.
     
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    Weird how a person who doesn't know your dog thinks they do know better. She's really not worth thinking about.
     
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    Kate, this woman is not worth a seconds thought. People who say hateful and hurtful things have nothing going on in their own lives which is why they do it. They are generally not liked either. I'm sure we could all think of someone like that. I really hope you are OK. xxx :hug:
     
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    How rude, what is the matter with some people o_O.
     
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    Just why? Why? She asked a reasonable question..so why would she scoff at your answer. Idiot woman.
     
  12. Hollysdad

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    I wonder how active she would be after surgery?
     
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    Well I'm game to see if anyone's else is we could get her a protective t shirt. A nice mid line spay might give her something to think about rather than being horrid
    no best just to smile and think she has to go home with herself that must be terrible
     
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    So sorry Kate, I don't have a thick skin so those kind of rude comments really bother me for ages, I hope you're doing alright :heart:
     
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    How rude! Have a good cuddle with your two lovely dogs.x
     
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    At the end of the day we all know how much you dote on your dogs and that you have their best interests at heart 100% of the time. Rude woman. Sending you hugs from me and licks from Harley xx
     
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    What a rude, miserable person.
     
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    Some people's thoughtlessness just beggars belief!
     
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    This is why most of the time I like dogs more than people. :mad:

    On the positive side, the medical shirt sounds like a brilliant idea - I'd never heard of it. Glad she's doing so well and hopefully you're both getting better sleep now. :)
     
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    Sorry to hear this, never nice...but here are a couple of responses for next time:

    Unless your name is Google stop acting like you know it all
    Since you know it all, you should know when to shut the ____ up
    Being right isn't nearly as important as knowing when to shut up
    Try being informed instead of being opinionated
    I didn't realise you where an expert on my life and how I should live it! Continue while I take notes

    This is why my wife at times just turns to me and says 'you can't say that'

    I am glad that she is doing well and before you know it all will be back to normal
     
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