About to get a 9-week-old Puppy on May 9th...

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  1. Naya

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    Re: About to get a 9-week-old Puppy on May 9th...

    When Harley was 10 weeks old I was able to leave her in her crate for 2-3 hours without any accidents. I think I was lucky that she has a bladder like a camel . Every dog is different and some are very quick with being house trained, others take a bit longer.
    She also sleeps with me and my hubby and has done since she was 10 weeks old. The only downside is she takes up so much space - we had to buy a king size bed to allow us some room. I must admit I love waking up to her cuddled up to me.
     
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    [quote author=MarcusEddy link=topic=10504.msg155457#msg155457 date=1428632993]
    [quote author=Oberon link=topic=10504.msg155271#msg155271 date=1428548519]
    Welcome to the forum! How exciting that you are soon to be bringing a puppy into your life :)

    As Maisiesmomma says some people use a puppy pen (bigger than a crate) when they need to go out, but the puppy will definitely wee and poo in this. Anything that's large enough for the puppy to perceive that there's a separate sleeping and peeing area will get peed in. It just delays house training, though that's by no means a disaster. :)

    Crate training definitely doesn't mean leaving your puppy in a crate all day while you go out to work - so you are right to question that! :) Crates are great for overnight, or for a few hours at a time, or as a safe haven where the puppy can rest and not be disturbed.

    With a young puppy the ideal is to have someone around most of the time at least for the first month. Is your work at all flexible, or are there people you can call on, or a pet minding service or puppy day care in your area?
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    I might be able to ask some people to be around him most of the time, but he might have to stay alone at MOST for two hours even for the first month (will not happen very often). I havent decided what I should with his sleeping place as well. I know lots of people in this forum prefer crating their puppy during the night and let them out for potting, but one of my friends has a dog and he only kept his dog while he went out, which means he always slept together with his dog.. and that dog seems not to have any issue at all.. he looks so confident and very well raised.. I have never seen him make a single accident in the house.. what do you think about that?.. sorry about too much questioning.. I am just a worried daddy haha.
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    You don't have to use a crate overnight :) You can have the pup on a bed in your bedroom, or on your bed, or in a crate in your bedroom or anywhere you want in the house. Personally I'm a fan of having dogs in the bedroom - I think they like to be with us. My dog sleeps on our bed.

    Basically the more you can arrange it so your pup toilets outside and the more rewarding you can make that, the faster toilet training should be. But accidents are inevitable and are not a big deal. You will work out how often and when to take him outside. :)

    Two hours in a crate is fine - you just need to build up to that slowly and also gradually get him used to being alone for periods of time.
     
  3. MarcusEddy

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    [quote author=Oberon link=topic=10504.msg155511#msg155511 date=1428654429]
    [quote author=MarcusEddy link=topic=10504.msg155457#msg155457 date=1428632993]
    [quote author=Oberon link=topic=10504.msg155271#msg155271 date=1428548519]
    Welcome to the forum! How exciting that you are soon to be bringing a puppy into your life :)

    As Maisiesmomma says some people use a puppy pen (bigger than a crate) when they need to go out, but the puppy will definitely wee and poo in this. Anything that's large enough for the puppy to perceive that there's a separate sleeping and peeing area will get peed in. It just delays house training, though that's by no means a disaster. :)

    Crate training definitely doesn't mean leaving your puppy in a crate all day while you go out to work - so you are right to question that! :) Crates are great for overnight, or for a few hours at a time, or as a safe haven where the puppy can rest and not be disturbed.

    With a young puppy the ideal is to have someone around most of the time at least for the first month. Is your work at all flexible, or are there people you can call on, or a pet minding service or puppy day care in your area?
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    I might be able to ask some people to be around him most of the time, but he might have to stay alone at MOST for two hours even for the first month (will not happen very often). I havent decided what I should with his sleeping place as well. I know lots of people in this forum prefer crating their puppy during the night and let them out for potting, but one of my friends has a dog and he only kept his dog while he went out, which means he always slept together with his dog.. and that dog seems not to have any issue at all.. he looks so confident and very well raised.. I have never seen him make a single accident in the house.. what do you think about that?.. sorry about too much questioning.. I am just a worried daddy haha.
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    You don't have to use a crate overnight :) You can have the pup on a bed in your bedroom, or on your bed, or in a crate in your bedroom or anywhere you want in the house. Personally I'm a fan of having dogs in the bedroom - I think they like to be with us. My dog sleeps on our bed.

    Basically the more you can arrange it so your pup toilets outside and the more rewarding you can make that, the faster toilet training should be. But accidents are inevitable and are not a big deal. You will work out how often and when to take him outside. :)

    Two hours in a crate is fine - you just need to build up to that slowly and also gradually get him used to being alone for periods of time.
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    Thank you so much for your comment. I was just worried that if I let him sleep with me on the bed it will take more time to toilet train him and may have bad influences in terms of Saparation Anxiety.

    Is there any downside about letting sleeping with me together?.. like he will pee on the bed instead of waking me up.
     
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    [quote author=Naya link=topic=10504.msg155489#msg155489 date=1428650488]
    When Harley was 10 weeks old I was able to leave her in her crate for 2-3 hours without any accidents. I think I was lucky that she has a bladder like a camel . Every dog is different and some are very quick with being house trained, others take a bit longer.
    She also sleeps with me and my hubby and has done since she was 10 weeks old. The only downside is she takes up so much space - we had to buy a king size bed to allow us some room. I must admit I love waking up to her cuddled up to me.
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    that's what I am saying.. I really dont want to give up that feeling...
    I think it would one of the options to fully housetrain&toilet him and then I might let him sleep with me later on as he grows..

    did you have any accident on your bed or anywhere in your bedroom at all while you guys sleep? My concern is that he might think that he doesnt have to wake me up to go pee as he as a lot of space to go for that in a room as well as on the bed.
     
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    [quote author=MarcusEddy link=topic=10504.msg155541#msg155541 date=1428670499]
    I think it would one of the options to fully housetrain&toilet him and then I might let him sleep with me later on as he grows..
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    This seems like a good option to me :)

    [quote author=MarcusEddy link=topic=10504.msg155541#msg155541 date=1428670499]
    Did you have any accident on your bed or anywhere in your bedroom at all while you guys sleep? My concern is that he might think that he doesnt have to wake me up to go pee as he as a lot of space to go for that in a room as well as on the bed.
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    It depends whether you wake up when he asks to go. But there will always be the possibility of a messy bed sometimes as all dogs throw up/have the runs in the night at some time in their life.

    The only way to be prepared for it is to have clean sheets and covers at the ready!

    It's years since I had a dog on my bed as I have become such a light sleeper, the slightest sound wakes me up. But my lovely Boogie (who I name myself after) slept on our bed and there were very few accidents. But there are never going to be none - and up to 4 months they much more likely, of course :)
     
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    I don't have my dogs on my bed, but when I bring them home as tiny puppies I have a cardboard box next to me bed, I can dangle my hand in to comfort them and I found that if they wanted to go to the loo, they would alert me and I would take them out. Never had any accidents. When older they went in a crate overnight downstairs. During the day they would voluntarily go into the crate to sleep, saw it as their den, I would then close the door once they were asleep, so introductory to the crate seemed to be seamless.
     
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    I didn't have my pup in my bedroom at first, but for my next pup I'd do as Stacia suggests - I can't see that it's a good thing to leave a puppy alone at first. It must be scary enough leaving mum without being left alone as well.
     
  8. MaccieD

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    Juno was crated from day 1 with no problems, but she spent the first 10 nights in my bedroom in her crate to help her settle (she cried the first night as I turned off the kitchen light hence the move of her crate upstairs). I'd never allowed a pup to sleep in my room before but decided I didn't want my new little girl to cry (no doubt after reading the Happy Puppy Book)After that she was in her crate in the kitchen. Athough I didn't set my alarm, as some new puppy owners do, woke every couple of hours and took her out for a wee. I, personally, do not agree with a dog sharing my bedroom or bed which also has the benefit of preventing Juno from going up and down the stairs, something to consider as your pup grows.
     
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    [quote author=JulieT link=topic=10504.msg155546#msg155546 date=1428674037]
    I didn't have my pup in my bedroom at first, but for my next pup I'd do as Stacia suggests - I can't see that it's a good thing to leave a puppy alone at first. It must be scary enough leaving mum without being left alone as well.
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    I shall do the same, then when she has found her feet I will move her to the puppy pen.

    When will you get your new pupster JulieT?
     
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    Well, I was hoping later this year, but it's looking as though the year if going to be really, really busy with work and other commitments. So I'm thinking I'll put it off until 2016 at least, now.
     
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    [quote author=JulieT link=topic=10504.msg155555#msg155555 date=1428677507]
    Well, I was hoping later this year, but it's looking as though the year if going to be really, really busy with work and other commitments. So I'm thinking I'll put it off until 2016 at least, now.
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    Awwww - longer excitement period anyway!

    ;D
     
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    [quote author=Boogie link=topic=10504.msg155542#msg155542 date=1428670992]
    [quote author=MarcusEddy link=topic=10504.msg155541#msg155541 date=1428670499]
    I think it would one of the options to fully housetrain&toilet him and then I might let him sleep with me later on as he grows..
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    This seems like a good option to me :)

    [quote author=MarcusEddy link=topic=10504.msg155541#msg155541 date=1428670499]
    Did you have any accident on your bed or anywhere in your bedroom at all while you guys sleep? My concern is that he might think that he doesnt have to wake me up to go pee as he as a lot of space to go for that in a room as well as on the bed.
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    It depends whether you wake up when he asks to go. But there will always be the possibility of a messy bed sometimes as all dogs throw up/have the runs in the night at some time in their life.

    The only way to be prepared for it is to have clean sheets and covers at the ready!

    It's years since I had a dog on my bed as I have become such a light sleeper, the slightest sound wakes me up. But my lovely Boogie (who I name myself after) slept on our bed and there were very few accidents. But there are never going to be none - and up to 4 months they much more likely, of course :)
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    Yeah I will set up my alarm every two or three hours in order to make sure he can go pee outside during the night. Honestly, I dont really worry about my room and bed getting wet as I have a carpet shampoo machine, but my concern is that it might affect the whole housetraining concept. but it seems to be fine then..

    thank you so much for your comment and advice. I will see how he does
     
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    [quote author=Dexter link=topic=10504.msg155462#msg155462 date=1428646625]
    Just stopping by to day hi and welcome,Dexter is our first dog too ,he's 2.5 now .Eddy is a great name ,will you get to visit him again before you pick him up?
    Best wishes
    Angela x
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    Yep Eddy is the first restaurant where my girlfriend and I went to for the first date...
    I went there only once as this is a bit far from when I am living now. But I have got some pictures of him the breeder sent via mobile. I just dont know how to upload it in here haha
     
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    [quote author=Stacia link=topic=10504.msg155545#msg155545 date=1428673868]
    I don't have my dogs on my bed, but when I bring them home as tiny puppies I have a cardboard box next to me bed, I can dangle my hand in to comfort them and I found that if they wanted to go to the loo, they would alert me and I would take them out. Never had any accidents. When older they went in a crate overnight downstairs. During the day they would voluntarily go into the crate to sleep, saw it as their den, I would then close the door once they were asleep, so introductory to the crate seemed to be seamless.
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    I think your case is the perfect case for crating.. it's in my option list ... haha I need to see how much he is comfortable with his crate. I think I can be a bit patient about sleeping together if I have to ;)
     
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    [quote author=MarcusEddy link=topic=10504.msg155559#msg155559 date=1428678060]

    Yeah I will set up my alarm every two or three hours in order to make sure he can go pee outside during the night. Honestly, I dont really worry about my room and bed getting wet as I have a carpet shampoo machine, but my concern is that it might affect the whole housetraining concept. but it seems to be fine then..

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    No it won't - they all have plenty of accidents, whatever toilet training route we take :) Some are just accident-free earlier than others.

    Remember to use a biological cleaner like Simple Solution as all other cleaners smell like wee to pups and encourage them to wee there again.
     
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    [quote author=MarcusEddy link=topic=10504.msg155562#msg155562 date=1428678395]
    [quote author=Stacia link=topic=10504.msg155545#msg155545 date=1428673868]
    I don't have my dogs on my bed, but when I bring them home as tiny puppies I have a cardboard box next to me bed, I can dangle my hand in to comfort them and I found that if they wanted to go to the loo, they would alert me and I would take them out. Never had any accidents. When older they went in a crate overnight downstairs. During the day they would voluntarily go into the crate to sleep, saw it as their den, I would then close the door once they were asleep, so introductory to the crate seemed to be seamless.
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    I think your case is the perfect case for crating.. it's in my option list ... haha I need to see how much he is comfortable with his crate. I think I can be a bit patient about sleeping together if I have to ;)
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    To get him comfortable with going in to his crate, throw some nice tasty treats for him to find and eat starting at the entrance point and then as many others as you like and do this several times during his first hours with you in his new home. I used some of Juno's normal kibble from her meal allowance. I also gave Juno a worn jumper of mine to cuddle up to as she had spent 4 hours cuddled up with me in the car on the journey home. You could also ask your breeder if they have an old towel, piece of vetbed or something similar which could come home with your puppy which has mum's smell and that of his litter mates. All helps in the settllng in process.
     
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    Welcome from me and Pongo!

    I just want to add to the enthusiastic comments about vetbed - I thought it looked really expensive when I first saw it but it is worth every penny, and excellent for a very young pup. It is very tough, very soft and machine washable. For Pongo's first few weeks with us his bit of vetbed was his best thing in the world - bed, enemy-to-fight-with, cuddle, and favourite chew-toy all rolled into one. We got one big bit and cut it into two, one for his bed and one for the car. Both bits still going strong!
     
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    [quote author=Rosie link=topic=10504.msg155576#msg155576 date=1428682302]
    Welcome from me and Pongo!

    I just want to add to the enthusiastic comments about vetbed - I thought it looked really expensive when I first saw it but it is worth every penny, and excellent for a very young pup. It is very tough, very soft and machine washable. For Pongo's first few weeks with us his bit of vetbed was his best thing in the world - bed, enemy-to-fight-with, cuddle, and favourite chew-toy all rolled into one. We got one big bit and cut it into two, one for his bed and one for the car. Both bits still going strong!
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    Um.. I have seen so many good comments about vet bed.. I really think I should get one but I will purchase a big enough one as Lab grows too fast. thank you for your comment .. I will definitely get one later.

    Boogie- thank you so much for your link but I am living in Canada..... I dont think we have any vet bed at that much cheap price....

    its about $100 including shipping. too expensive but as I said, I am thinking of getting one. thanks!
     
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    Thats really expensive. There are a few Canadians on the forum, why not start a new thread asking about buying vetbed in canada and see if there are any ideas?
     

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